About MyPathToHappy
Welcome to My Path to Happy
A Journey Born from Experience, Built with Purpose.
My Path to Happy was born out of necessity, forged in the depths of my own struggle with what many call "mental illness." At one point I lost everything: my relationship, my family, my finances, my friends—and nearly my hope. I almost lost myself entirely.
But somehow I made it through just enough to take action. I sought help only to discover that traditional talk therapy didn’t work for me and I was reluctant to rely on pharmaceuticals. Frustration and desperation took hold but so did a determination to find answers to the questions no one seemed able to answer:
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What’s wrong with me?
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How do I fix it?
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How can I just be happy?
The Search for Answers
That search for answers became a journey that spanned years, countless avenues, and even countries. Eventually I discovered something that changed my life: there was nothing "wrong" with me. My mind wasn’t broken—it was doing exactly what it was designed to do: ensure my survival.
The problem? The way my mind was achieving survival was working against me, creating pain instead of peace.
I realized that every human being is guided by subconscious programs running 24/7. These programs are designed to keep us alive but they don’t always promote happiness or well-being. The key to changing my life was clear: change the programs!
The Subconscious Connection
Our subconscious programs dictate everything—our thoughts, feelings, actions, emotions and behaviours. These behaviours shape how we interact with the world and how the world responds shapes the life we experience. It’s a chain reaction that starts in the subconscious.
Unfortunately our conscious minds—the part of us that wants to change—are just bystanders. They observe and try to intervene but they lack the tools to create lasting change and the strength to outweigh the subconscious minds desires.
When I realized this the penny dropped. I began creating new subconscious programs designed not just for survival but for a happy, healthy, fulfilling life. Everything I consciously wanted I created in my subconscious so it became a natural way of living. I could achieve anything I wanted effortlessly! I tested my theories on myself, then on others who asked for help, the results were stunning!
A New Path Forward
Encouraged by these breakthroughs I developed my model further. I sought out similar modalities, educated myself, and earned qualifications. I left my career in architecture behind and dedicated myself fully to helping others overcome their 'problems, issues and challenges'.
After years of working with individuals and couples, I realised something powerful: the health of a relationship is deeply tied to individual happiness. When individuals are happy, they are also happier as a couple. And when couples thrive, families thrive.
Why does My Path to Happy Exist?
Today I dedicate my work to helping couples find genuine happiness in their relationships. My methods are grounded in lived experience, proven techniques, and a deep understanding of how our subconscious minds shape our lives.
There is a way to find and maintain happiness in your relationship and I’m genuinely excited to show you how. Together we will rewrite the subconscious programs holding you back and replace them with ones that foster love, connection, respect and joy.
Let me guide you on your path to happiness because your relationship deserves it,
and so do you!
Professional Background
Education
C.Hyp / BA(Hons) / RTT / NLP
My BA is from Greenwich University in London, England and my C.HYP was gained under the Marisa Peer School of therapy. I have also gained qualifications in NLP and other related modalities . My academic background equips me with in-depth knowledge and practical skills to support couples effectively on their therapeutic journey.
Certifications
Licensed Therapist
As a licensed therapist, I adhere to ethical standards and best practices in the field of therapy and counselling. My certification ensures that I provide professional and competent therapy services, maintaining confidentiality and prioritizing the well-being of my clients.
Experience
Years of Practice
Living with issues and struggling to find happiness? over 40 years!
Experiencing a breakdown and coming to terms with not taking action earlier in life? 2 years!
Moving forward and taking my journey to where I am today? 7 years!
With years of real life experience followed by years of professional practice experience in helping individuals and couples, I have worked with a diverse range of relationship challenges. My extensive experience enables me to offer tailored interventions and holistic support to couples seeking to enhance their relationship and emotional well-being, helping them to find and maintain happiness in their relationships.
Approach
Therapeutic Style
Using the Want and Need Relationship Tool in conjunction with the incredibly powerful Fear Based Anxiety Loop Model, my therapeutic approach is centred on the unique dynamics of each relationship focusing on the specific needs and goals of the couple. I integrate evidence-based techniques to create a trusting and empowering therapeutic relationship that promotes mutual understanding, insight, and positive change.
Specializations
Areas of Expertise
I specialise in addressing communication issues, intimacy concerns, mood, trust and infidelity recovery, premarital counseling, and blended family dynamics. By tailoring therapy to each couple's unique situation I help them navigate specific concerns, overcome obstacles, and cultivate resilience and emotional well-being in their relationship.
Training
Continuous Development
I engage in ongoing training and professional development to stay informed about the latest research and therapeutic approaches in couples counseling. By staying up to date my knowledge and skills I ensure that my clients receive high-quality and up-to-date therapeutic interventions tailored to the evolving dynamics of relationships.
