Relationship Specialists
We specialise in helping couples with their relationships!
That means everything we do has been created to help you find joy and genuine happiness no matter what you may be feeling about your relationship right now!
No matter what the problems or the issues are, no matter how big or how small, there IS a way to turn it around. You can be happy and you can MAINTAIN HAPPINESS in your relationship.
Let us show you how!
About
My Path To Happy
OPTION 1
Instant help: Online video & PDF based mini course
(Quick and easy, get answers and solutions straight away, no waiting, start RIGHT NOW!)
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OPTION 2
Make a booking: Private 1-1 Relationship Sessions online or in person
(Book private sessions with our founder Simon Law or one of our trained specialists)
Our Approach
A Structured Approach for Relationship Enhancement
Traditional couples therapy will focus on coping mechanisms and various other strategies to help you 'put up with' the issues in your relationship. While learning certain strategies is important it is almost certainly not going to lead to long lasting happiness and growth individually or as a couple. Our approach is focused around a centralised model based on the Want And Need Relationship Tool. Every single relationship of any kind is created on a fundamental bedrock of want and need. What is it you want from a relationship, what is it you need from a relationship and is your relationship more want or need based and how much do your wants and needs overlap with your partners wants and needs. The size of the overlap areas in conjunction with the location of your overlap areas will identify and highlight the reasons for issues in your relationship;
"Understanding the want and need scale is vital to understanding and taking control over your relationships, once you understand the structure you can use it to change everything".
As human beings we have 2 different sets of wants and needs. 'Set A' is located in the subconscious mind and 'set B' is located on the conscious mind. When the wants and needs in set A and B are driving a person in different directions there will be internal disconnect, when the wants and needs change over time in a person and no longer align with the wants and needs of your partner we have a further relationship disconnect, this results in the issues that you are experiencing right now! If you leave this disconnect the likelihood is that the problems increase, not get better on their own. If you attempt to learn coping strategies you are just covering up the underlying issues, coping strategies are only ever short term temporary fixes, never long tern solutions - and its hard work to function like this 24/7, what a waste of time and energy!
The wants and needs that are based in your subconscious, the part of the mind that controls emotions, feelings, thoughts and desires and of course our wants and our needs are locked away from you!
So the part of your mind that is in control of your wants and needs and ultimately determines the quality of your relationship is currently unaccessible. It's not necessarily either persons fault but to take control and change things around you must understand how our minds work mechanically so you can then apply the teachings to your relationship. The Want And Need Relationship Tool is a straight forward, easy and simple yet very powerful tool to allow you to see what your wants and needs really are and from there you are better able to understand why your relationship that was once a beautiful thing is now in disconnect, and what to do about it!
You really can find peace, harmony, excitement and adventure, you really can find true happiness in your relationship no matter what you think or how you feel about it right now!
But you must take action because nothing will improve until YOU make it happen!
So make it happen, download our video based mini course The Want And Need Relationship Tool. This will give you the foundational knowledge of the scale and the method that runs along side it. For some this video based mini course is enough on its own to help them understand whats going on and how to change things around, for others it lays solid foundations for working with us in private 1-1 sessions either as a couple or individually to start with.
Step 1: Commit to starting your journey, the start of you finding and maintaining happiness in your relationship. You can start to make things better right now!
"If you don't want to rely on pure luck, hope or anything else to give you the relationship you want and deserve then you must learn, understand and use the want and need relationship tool. If you do then like countless others before you, you will have the greatest opportunity to find and maintain happiness in your relationship, if you don't then you are relying on luck and hope alone"!
The First Big Step
The Want and Need Relationship Tool is not simply about compatibility. While compatibility plays a role in relationships, it’s a lot more complex than it seems. Successful, happy, and fulfilling relationships can exist between people who may seem incompatible on the surface, and the opposite is also true—seemingly compatible couples can still face breakdowns.
The truth is, compatibility matters far less to a successful relationship than you might think.
The first step to finding and maintaining happiness in any relationship—romantic or otherwise—is understanding the Want and Need Relationship Tool. The easiest way to do this is by completing the easy video based Want And Need Relationship
Tool Mini Course. Designed to be finished in a day or a weekend or spread over a single week if time is limited, this course provides the essential foundations for all further work.
Taking the first step right now is important because nothing will change unless you take action!
1. You can start work on your relationship RIGHT NOW. You don't need to wait for a 1-1 private session appointment, you can get to work RIGHT NOW.
2. It saves time and money. By building a strong foundation with the course, we can focus our private sessions on deeper work, reducing overall costs.
3. It lets you test the methods. The course gives you insight into our approach, allowing you to see if it’s a good fit for you and your partner before committing to private sessions.
4. It demonstrates your commitment. Completing the course shows the commitment needed to engage fully in learning and taking control of the situation.
While the Mini Course is open to everyone, priority for 1-1 sessions is given to those who have already shown commitment by completing the course.
2 Options for Help
OPTION 1
The Want And Need Relationship Tool
Mini Course.
( Pre recorded online video based mini course with pdf downloads)
Many people have found happiness and peace in their relationships just from completing this course on its own. Designed to be completed in a single day or over a weekend or 1 week if time is limited. This course holds nothing back and gives you all the information needed to understand your relationship, what to do to get back on track and how to do it!
OPTION 2
Private Relationship sessions.
( 1-1 private couples counselling / coaching via zoom or in person)
We take the basic foundations of the mini course and work through the structure of each stage in greater detail. We hold your hand through everything and we support you both all the way.
We then take you further and introduce you to brand new techniques and methods, we work with you individually and as a couple. 1-1 private sessions is a journey and the transformations are usually amazing.
If you have completed the mini course first we would recommend between 4 and 6 private sessions. If you have not completed the mini course first we would recommend between 6 - 8 sessions.
Each session is between 60 - 90 minutes long depending on what is required but the price is fixed so you don't have to worry about costs running away.
Delivery, support & fees
OPTION 1
The Want And Need Relationship Tool
Mini Course.
( Pre recorded online video based mini course with pdf downloads)
Delivery:
YouTube link to course videos
Automated email with PDF course material downloads
Duration:
1 day min / 1 week max to complete
12 month access
Fees:
$47.00 with 30 day money back guarantee
Support:
Full email support
Direct email messaging
OPTION 2
Private Relationship sessions.
( 1-1 private couples counselling / coaching via zoom or in person)
Delivery:
Zoom Worldwide, online or,
In person @ Boathouse, Wellington
Duration:
Session time is 90min max
Session frequency to be agreed
Fees:
$195.00 per couples session
(between 4 - 6 are recommended)
Support:
Full private support
Direct contact
Success Stories
"My partner and I found our relationship sessions extremely beneficial in improving our communication and understanding. Simon provided a safe and non-judgmental space for us to explore our challenges and understand what was happening."
Hannah & Mark
"Simon was great, he has been invaluable in helping us navigate through a tough phase in our relationship. We've gained valuable insights and tools that have significantly strengthened our bond, this has really helped us."
Mike & James
"We highly recommend both options to any couple seeking professional guidance. The approach is compassionate and friendly but also full of knowledge and no padding or wasted stuff. It has totally transformed our relationship journey."
Sarah & Dean
Experience the Transformation
STEP 1: Introduction to the Want and Need Relationship tool.
Gain knowledge & answers, know why you are experiencing problems and issues
Use the Want and Need Relationship tool to understand what exactly needs to change and how to change it
Results:
Happiness in your relationship and the knowledge to maintain it even through life's inevitable challenges.